I want to paint my room, What color will suit the furniture and at the same time is soft/light ?

all white and bring the accent colors in?as in cushion's curtains mirrors are a must to bounce the light all over and make the illusions of larger,a man I would say for you reds and blacks ?red duvet set black throw and red and black satin cushions?gold and black around the picture frames and mirrors some gold effect ornaments? black dish and some red potpourri "Cinnamon"buy in most stores? hope this helps you ?but you want to be calm in your room so white is your canvas evan one wall with a pattern wallpaper? but trust me the pictures and mirrors will calm you?enjoy!