I have known my girl 7 weeks and we have been seeing each other a month. I told her I love her is it too soon?

Ok, I would have to say that 1 month is way too soon to start saying I love you. Any relationships that I had when he said I love you that early ended bad. You have a few options, however. First off, don't ume automatically that she is avoiding you (unless her behavior is out of the norm). Secondly, you should talk to her about what happened...leave her a voicemail if she won't answer the phone or try to schedule a place and time to meet. Try to explain yourself. Maybe you were caught up in "a moment of pion"; maybe you meant "I really care for you" as opposed to "I love you". Just let her know that you are backing up and don't want to pressure her. You made a mistake and mistakes happen--if she doesn't respond to your explanations or attempts to fix things then she probably isn't worth it anyway and you should move on. Good luck!